Different rooms, same walls

Two people can sit in the same room and have remarkably different experiences. Different images, different emotions, different things that mattered. That is not a contradiction; it is close to what usually happens.

You may want to let both accounts stand without making them match. It is possible to be close to someone and not have had the same week.

If you are the person who stayed while the other person was away — what was agreed beforehand still stands unless you both change it, and neither of you has to have the experience the other had.